Monday, September 1, 2025

August Round-Up!

Another month has flown right on by. The end of August always feels like the end of summer to me, and this year is no exception . . . especially since we've already had some cool and rainy weather! Here are some of the things that occupied our month.

We returned home from Nebraska (you can read about our trip here) on August 3rd, along with several dozen heads of corn. We gave part of it away to our church family, but we enjoyed the rest of for several meals! 


Cross country practice was going strong all month. The elementary kids began practicing three days a week, while the junior high and high school kids continued practicing four days a week. After JH/HS practice, Brenson was often found heading up a game of disc golf with several of his teammates. 

Gavon, Bren, Hope, and Abby


I made a new cross country shirt for a new season!

I also made several other shirts, including this one for Kaylee:

Our friend and sister-in-Christ, Lynn, passed away on August 9th, and so we attended her funeral and graveside service a few days later. She had cancer, and we had prayed that the Lord would take her swiftly. While we were thankful her suffering ended, it was still a really hard thing to say good-bye to her. Lynn is the third church member we've lost at Oologah in the past six weeks. This is the only photo I have of us together from a few years ago, and I'm so thankful I have it!

One day this month, I drove Mom to Wichita to visit Granny. She has recently moved from her assisted living apartment into a more traditional one-room type nursing home situation. I wish I could say we had a great visit, but it was really tough. Granny was very agitated and confused when we arrived, and it took her a good bit to calm down so we could visit with her. Even after settling down, she wasn't having a mentally clear day. At one point, she told Mom that she would love to go horseback riding. She said, "I could do it, but I know I shouldn't." 😂 Even with all that, I'm so thankful we went.
 

We started back with our schooling the first week of this month. The kids are working hard and doing well so far. The photo below was part of something Brenson had to do for ELA. It made me smile!

Finally, we ended the month with a quick trip to Ft. Smith, Arkansas with Mom and Dad to learn a little history and explore the National Historic Site. We typically have a cross country meet on the last Saturday of the month, but Coach decided to change things up a bit this year. We were grateful for the time to take this little trip, as it's something we've wanted to do for a while.

We went to Mom and Dad's house at about 8:00am, so Brenson and Brooke could ride with them to Ft. Smith. Of course, Grampy had to stop for donuts along the way, but we eventually made it to the Arkansas visitor's center. 

And then, to Fort Smith just a little ways down the road. 

We began our visit at the Visitor's Center where the kids stamped their passport books, and we watched a short video on the history of Fort Smith. 

Then, we were able to walk through the jail known as "Hell on the Border".

Brooke and Brecklyn agree that it is not a place we'd want to be!

The jail had two cells that held up to 50 men each. Yikes!

On the upper floor of the visitor's center, there is a museum that gives lots of history of the fort along with some hands-on exhibits of the jail (from a different time period) and barracks where soldiers slept.


We were even able to see the courtroom where Judge Isaac Parker - known as 'The Hanging Judge' - presided. 

The grounds were beautiful, and we were there on a gorgeous, cool day (for August). 

Entrance of the fort with the 38 star flag flying in the background

Brenson, Chris, and Grampy with a cannon

The commissary building

Bri and Brooke with a covered wagon in front of the commissary building

After spending a few hours exploring the fort, we went to lunch at a little diner called Lewis's Family Restaurant. It was good food and hit the spot!

Before heading back to Oklahoma, we drove through the Fort Smith National Cemetery. I can't recall having ever been to a National Cemetery before, and I know this was a first for the kids. 


There were graves that dated back to the Civil War. It was sobering and interesting, for sure. 


Brianna and Brecklyn rode with Grampy and G-Jo on the way home, and after stopping for ice cream in Muskogee, we arrived home around 5:00pm. It was a quick trip, for sure, but we really enjoyed it! 

This month definitely had some difficult parts, but as always there are blessings along with the hard. For that, we are so grateful!



Friday, August 15, 2025

Backyard Back-to-School Bash Numero Siete!

Last Friday we hosted one of our favorite evenings of the year . . . our annual Backyard Back-to-School Bash. This was our 7th one to host, and it was a great time as always!

In the past, I have created a FB event to invite people to the bash and keep everyone updated on what they needed to know. This year, however, I decided to text an invite instead of mess with a FB page. It worked out just fine and was easier for me. Most of the people we invited this year have been before, so I also didn't feel the need to send out as much information. 

Every year I think we aren't going to have many guests, but every year it turns out just fine. This year was no exception! We ended up with a beautiful evening and a good crowd.

This year - for the first time - we had friends who were dropped off by their parents or drove themselves. Sigh. This means my kiddos are getting too big!

Bren, Easton, Jacob, Gavon, Jaxen, and Oliver

Sadie, Brecklyn, Blake, Brooke, Harper, Bri, Abby, Abby, and Kyrie

Another shot of the girls with Brecklyn looking a little more normal, lol.

Set up for this event has gotten so easy. I remember the first several years we hosted this, it would take us a whole day to get everything ready. Now, the kids are older and are fantastic helpers, and we just don't do as much as far as decorations, crafts, games, etc. Even cleaning up after everyone leaves is much easier and faster. This year, we even trimmed the menu down a bit to just hot dogs, veggies, fruit, and s'mores. We didn't do chili or the trail mix bar, but our guests all brought sides and it was great!

As soon as everyone finished eating, the kids got the volleyball games going. As much as they loved the quad-ball, they like volleyball even more because more can play at a time. Maybe next year we'll do both!


Something special this year was that Lisa and Chloe came down to Oklahoma for the party, AND Jeremy was in town visiting. It was fun for me to have out-of-town family here!

Chloe and Bri

Jeremy, Mom, Chelle, Lisa, and Dad

Of course, Jeremy enjoyed meeting many of the kids' friends. He had some special words for Bri's "friend", Jaxen :-).

I'm pretty sure Bri wasn't thrilled with the situation!

Aside from volleyball, our guests also enjoyed the playset and playhouse like they always do. I'm glad we still have kids young enough to enjoy those activities, too!

Deon, Gracie, Caroline, and Julia

Harper, Bri, and Chloe

Spencer, Stormi, Caroline, Julia, and Deon

Tia, Jody, Dana, Chelle, and Lisa

Harper and Bri

Jeremy handed out many ducks at our gathering. The kids kept seeking him out to get them!

G-Jo, Jeremy, Spencer, and Stormi

Jeremy giving Spencer and Stormi some instructions regarding the ducks.

Sarah, Chelle, Michelle, and Anna

Anna and Chelle

Brianna, Tia, and Lisa

At one point, Caroline fell and busted her knee at the playhouse. Tia took her inside to get it cleaned up and bandaged. Jeremy decided to join in on the fun, haha.

The fire is still a popular spot during the party. I think we went through four bags of marshmallows this year! 

Grampy, Brecklyn, Easton, and Bri

Brecklyn, Sadie, and Brooke

Brooke, Caroline, Julia, Koda, and Brecks

Deon, Julia, Gracie, Caroline, Brecklyn, Brooke, and Sadie

Blake and Brianna . . . Blake has outgrown Bri!

About half-way through the evening, the adults challenged the teens to a volleyball rematch. The teens talked a lot of smack about how they were going to beat the adults this year, but it didn't happen!


The adults came away victorious for the second year in a row!

Tiffanie, Brad, Ross, Chris, Mark, and Renee

Most of our guests left around 9:30pm, but there were a few who stayed a little later. Lisa and Chloe spent the night at our house, and the Smiths and Harper also stayed a little later. The kids enjoyed hanging out on the driveway in the front, but the adults stayed inside away from the bugs.

Chloe, Brecklyn, Brenson, Brooke, Harper, Brianna, and Jaxen

Those who joined us for the fun were: Grampy, G-Jo, Jeremy, Lisa, Chloe, Ross, Tia, Sadie, Caroline, Mark, Anna, Gavon, Blake, Sarah, Oliver, Abby, Gracie, Renee, Britt, Kyrie, Michelle, Koda, Julia, Deon, Easton, Harper, Abby, Jacob, Dana, Stormi, Spencer, Tiffanie, Brad, Jaxen, Brynlee, Lizzy, and our crew. 

This event has become very special to us, and we hope we can continue it for some years to come. It is a blessing to host our friends, laugh together, and just genuinely enjoy each others company!