Then, I read a book called His Needs, Her Needs. It was a real eye-opener for me. It basically says that affairs happen in marriage because of unmet/unfulfilled needs, not because of pure physical attraction.
As a general rule, I do believe this is the truth. Of course, there are always exceptions, but I think for the most part, looks have very little to do with anything when it comes to an affair.Do you know who is a prime example of this? Arnold Swarzanegger. Have you all seen photos of his mistress? I'm not trying to be mean in any way, but c'mon! I have always thought that Maria Shriver is an attractive woman, and the (former?) mistress is, ummm, well, you know, less than attractive.